Hi everyone, I was wondering if anyone else is trying to or has planned a wedding when a relative was sick. Here's the deal, my dad has brain cancer, has had surgery and is undergoing chemo and radiation. It's like a kick in the face for all of us, been very hard to deal with. Even though he always asks about our plans and I show him pictures of stuff I can't help but feel guilty. Like none of it matters anymore I just want him better. He is paying for the wedding and is still insisting on paying when all I really want is to just take away a small piece of his stress ( he has the money, I know this but I don't like him worrying about payment schedules and such) Everyone tells me to keep him happy give him fun things to think about but it's hard. Has anyone else had experience with this ? I don't really know what I'm looking for maybe I would just feel better to get the opinion of someone who is not trying to patronize me . Thanks in advance.