I know I've read on here that its rude to say "No gifts please" or some variation of that on invitations, but I don't remember why.
Is that true of all parties or just wedding related events? Seems like all the party invites I've received lately say something about no gifts.
What about something like a "Diaper Shower" for a new baby that's the second or third child? Is it okay to call it a diaper shower and then say "no gifts"?
I'm thinking of doing a diaper shower for SIL. How do people feel about those? It would just be an excuse to get together and eat and give the family a package of diapers for the new little one.