So we went to our caterer meet and greet/tasting yesterday (4 exclusive caterers for our venue, all were there to see what each were about really before going for an official tasting with them) and FMIL asked about the RD.
Now, FMIL has never offered to do anything for the wedding yet, and I didn't really know how to approach the subject. FI wants nothing to do with it because he gets yelled at by FMIL about everything, so he'd rather I talk directly to her.
FMIL was talking to FI about how she thought it was her responsibility for the RD, but my dad has offered to do it at his home with pay for everything. That was a good plan to me, but now it seems FMIL wanted to do it but never said anything, and now I believe she's upset (from the FI said).
FI said FMIL wants to do lunch with me in the future, but how do I approach the subject of the RD? I don't want to expect her to do it, and I don't want to ask her to do it, so how does this get worded? Should I let her do it if she offers? My dad already seems set with doing it at the house, but I don't want FMIL feeling like she isn't part of her son's wedding.
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