Shower for 30 ppl, held at the home of the brides soon to be sister in law (she is not in the bridal party).
This person will be getting her house ready and either paying for the food or splitting it with bridal party (still to be determined but I think she wanted to do the food herself) bridal party is covering cost of everything else: bar, favors, décor, invites etc (there are 8 BM's)
which option do I include on the invite
1) list the home address and "hosted by family and friends"
2) List "at the home of Jane Doe, hosted by family and friends"
3) on separate enclosure that covers directions/parking state the shower is at Jane Doe's home
4) list at Jane Doe's home but don't list a host at all
thanks for the help!