I've scoured the sites and there is a lot of advice and fun ideas for brides asking girls to be bridesmaids and ways for grooms to ask guys to be groomsmen but what if my close friend is a girl? Then HOW is the best way for inviting her to be a groomsman without making her feel uncomfortable if she wants to say no. I feel I wouldn't ask her in the same way I would my other guy friends. Do I make a special, more "girly" invitation? Ideas anyone?