July 2016 Weddings
Would you invite an ex?
This is a serious question that I for some reason feel more comfortable asking strangers than people close to me at this time (Go figure!). I'm sure I can get some honest and objective feedback this way. Well, this is my 2nd wedding and while I was separated, my rebound was this really talented photographer. He did my 30th bday party, over 2 years ago and people are still commenting to this day how great the pics are. He's the best in my area imo, and I have no romantic feelings for him. He's even commented after we broke it off that he would gladly shoot my wedding (his speciality) when I do decide to get married again. To be honest I'm considering him as our photographer for his professionalism and talent and the money I'd save too, plus my FI is willing to go along with it. But I'm super concerned if it would be inappropriate to go along with this guy. I'm not sure if he still has any feelings for me & I don't want to make my FI uncomfortable at all.
Am I over thinking this or are these legitimate concerns?
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