Hi everyone! Me and my fiance will be engaged for 2 months tomorrow and we finally started wedding planning, woot. It's gonna be in Spring 2017 so still too early to plan seriously but it's hard not to. Anyway, I was thinking about bridesmaids and selecting a maid of honor and realized I'm stuck. (My fiance is stuck on his groomsmen as well, haha)
I'll give a bit of background. I never had too many friends, I have one best friend that I have been friends with for 18 years now (2nd grade for the win). We have been in and out of each others lives because of school and such, but we're now starting to spend more time together again. I'm very close to a few of my cousins, especially one of them who is definitely a sister to me. So from the cousins I can think of 2 being in the wedding party.
Also during college I became pretty close to a group of people. 5 of them are girls and they've always been really good friends. But including all of them plus the necessary 3 would make the bridesmaid-to-guest ratio very uneven. We're planning to invite 90-ish people.
So my obvious choice would be the 2 cousins and my best friend. Is that too little? With the college friends it's all or none. And I'm not sure if my closest cousin or my best friend should be the maid of honor. Just need some advice for this confused bride-to-be.