We are going to be sending out STDs to our VIPs soonish. My Fi has an elderly great aunt he is close with. She basically raised his mom as his grandmother died when Fmil was young. He is not as close with the rest of that side of the family. Is it okay to send a STD to his Great Aunt but not the rest of the family? They will be invited, assuming everything stays on track budget wise, but we don't want to get in an awkward situation if we have to cut the guest list. She is the matriarch of that side of the family so people may see it when they go to visit her and I am afraid they will feel left out. I am still waiting on Fmil to give me the total number of people on that side, their names, and their addresses. She says it is around 15 people. Out of all our guests, these live the closest and will probably not be using overnight accommodations.
Sorry if this has been covered in previous posts, I wasn't able to dig anything up that seemed relevant.