To make a long story semi-short...I got engaged in March 2015, getting married in May 2016. Right after the engagement I asked one of my closest friends to be a BM. We'll call said friend *Jen. Fast forward a couple months to June, where Jen tells everyone she's pregnant. I'm so excited for her, I know she's wanted kids for forever. Then another week or two goes by when she calls me and says her boyfriend proposed (strange coincidence in timing). I'm thinking they may wait a while to pick a date or they may have a small ceremony very soon. Another week goes by and then Jen asks me to be a BM in her wedding. Of course I'd love to and I figured I would have a lot of time to prepare. Now here's what irks me. Jen says, "Oh yeah we already chose a date". I'm thinking wow, maybe they are rushing and doing a shotgun wedding before the baby, but nooooo...they chose a random date exactly three Saturday's before mine. Now I am no Bridezilla by any means but it just makes me wonder what her reasoning is behind that exact date. I don't mind at all that she is getting married before me but the fact that we are both in eachother's weddings means those last few months are going to be crazy for us. I didn't want to have to plan a shower and bachelorette party around someone else, but now I have to. Am I crazy, or is it normal for me to be stressed? Obviously we aren't there yet, but I keep thinking of all the planning and scheduling hecticness that will be after the new year.