I recently purchased my wedding dress, and upon sharing photos of the dress with my aunt, she told me that my grandmother wanted her pearls to go to me when I got engaged and that she wanted me to wear them on my wedding day. While I am honored to accept this gift, a regular strand of pearls are not the look I am going for. My dress is very simple and I was looking to wear a colorful statement necklace. I have always had a different style than my grandmother and aunt, a style I don't think they have every really understood. How do I honor my grandmother's wishes, while still staying true to my own vision for my big day?