My brother has asked me a few times if his daughter can be our flower girl. I have said to him that we are not having a flower girl or ring bearer, and he's being super pushy about it. He even said "you would look at your 7 year old niece and say she can't be involved? It would break her little heart".
I'm pretty sure they told her she would be the flower girl even though I never suggested it. I'm just frustrated and need to rant. Is it just me or is it super rude of him to be asking this?
For the record, we aren't allowed flower petals at our ceremony location because it's a historical building and is a museum part of the time. So we never considered it. Should I say anything other than "sorry brother, but we are not having a flower girl"?
I feel bad letting her down but it just seems easier to not have one. Is there another way I can involve her to make her feel special?