OK I'm really torn here. Our wedding will be in FL and most of the guests(most likely less than 75 attending) over the age of 30. I'd like to offer an open bar since we are asking our guests to travel for us, but my Mom thinks we don't need it. She says most of her family aren't big drinkers. My thoughts are I don't want to be cheap, but I also want to cut costs as much as possible.