My parents got divorced shortly after I got engaged in July. The divorce, to my surprise, has been anything but civil. My parents have not seen or spoken to each other since May and the first time this encounter will happen is at my rehearsal and wedding. I am nervous that there may be a huge fight between family members and my parents and unwanted drama at the wedding. I looking for suggestions for handling this incase this happens. My moms side of the family is really mad at my dad and said they might not even come if he is there, which obviously he will be. And if they feel that way, I suppose that is there decision. I just would love for everyone to be an adult on my day and make it about me not them, for just one day. Maybe I'm being too selfish. I just want to be prepared for the worst, even though I'm hoping for the best.