My boyfriend (fiance?) are eloping in a couple of months, followed by a destination wedding and open house for our family and friends. Our immediate families will be at the elopement and my grandparents want to get us a traditional wedding gift for the occasion. We're not a traditional couple (as you can tell by our non-traditional wedding plans), so we're not really interested in fine China or silver. We're really not sure what to ask for. Cash is off the table, my grandparents want to give us something to have for the duration of our marriage. Any suggestions?
EDIT: Clarification: we are not registering for any of these events. My grandparents are insisting on buying us a gift and I was looking for suggestions. We own a home and have all the furniture and kitchen appliances we could ever need, and china is just not something we're interested in. To those confused about the structure of our wedding, our aim was not to fish for more gifts (again, we're not even registering) or to have "3 weddings". It's about including the most people while a, not spending tens of thousands of dollars, and b, having the wedding we want.