When asked what I wanted to do for my Bachelorette, I told the girls I'd like to do Disney World if it was cool with everyone else. With the help of my dad who is covering the hotel, they made it happen and I along with my girls are thrilled to go! One girl has decided to back out due to cost which is totally understandable since between the wedding itself and the bachelorette the costs are adding up. I am sure this has happened to other girls on here and I was wondering if you did anything separately with bridesmaids that could not make it to things for the wedding? I want her to know that missing the bachelorette isn't a big deal but also want to do something special with her to show I care and am thankful to have her be a part of my day. Maybe a weekend visiting her (shes in Boston and I am near NYC)? Or is that all totally unnecessary? Would like your opinions and ideas.