This board was a great resource while planning my wedding, so thank you all!
But now I have a question about thank you cards.
We received an envelope with cash but there was no card or indication of who it was from (and neither of us remember who handed it to us).
We have narrowed it down to 3 possible people. All three will receive a thank you card, but since I'm not sure who the gift was from I don't know how to word them.
1. Should I thank all three for coming and not mention any gift (possibly offending the one that did give a gift for not thanking them for it)?
2. Should I thank all of them for coming and the gift (possibly making the non-gift givers feel guilty / think I am now asking for a gift from them)?
We have discussed asking the three (individually, via text or email) if they forgot to write their names/add a card but, like the second option above, to me it seems like we're asking the non-gift givers for a gift.
Any advice?