My husband and I have two family weddings on the same day in October. My cousin and I were very close growing up and she did the makeup for my wedding. She and her fiancé sent out save the dates 3 months ago, and the wedding is in our hometown. My husbands brother verbally told us last week that he and his fiancé set a wedding date and it’s the same day as my cousins wedding. No other details have been shared about my brother in laws wedding, but it’s out of state. Do we both go to the brothers wedding because it’s immediate family? Do we split up and one of us go to each wedding since my cousin sent out information a long time ago? What’s the “right” way to approach this?