My husband and I got married on April 1, 2018. It's a long story but I moved from Maine to NC, found my incredible man, and our relationship moved fast. His parents loved me until he moved out of their house with me and it got worse when we got engaged. They were incredibly mean and spiteful. They claimed the only reason their would have ever proposed to me would be because he must have accidentally knocked me up and was trying to do the right thing. They told us our wedding date wouldn't work for them and we were inconsiderate. It got so bad that they were banging on our apartment door in the mornings harassing us. So we only told my best friend and closest family in Maine and we drove up for a very tiny, half planned, wedding. Our relationship is wonderful but we never got to have our big wedding surrounded by friends, family, music, and party. So we decided to have a vow renewal ceremony and reception on the year mark so those who love us as friends or family can be present and celebrate with us. We also had a photographer paid for but not used yet and I'd love some proper wedding photos with my grandmother (who raised me) because while I'm so glad to be married, I wish I'd have had the big celebration. Is it weird for us to send out invites and make a big deal of this celebration on our one year mark? We kept our actual wedding hush hush. And it's not being treated as a wedding, but where we will exchange new vows and celebrate with good food and music. I just need some advice before we cement this plan...