I recently have had 2 separate people ask me where their invite is and why weren't they invited. The first sent me a facebook message saying they did not receive their invite. They weren't invited, but I am not sure how to address that as others from our social group were but not all. The other asked my dad about their invite and told him they were very hurt they weren't invited as they invited us to their daughters wedding (over 4 years ago).
We are trying to keep our wedding small, under 100 people total including myself, my fiance, DJ, and photographer. We are paying for the wedding and would like to actually have a life after rather than be in debt. Plus we limited our family that was invited too, neither of these people are family or one's I even talk to every month.
I just don't want to hurt anyone anymore than what I guess I have already. I hate confrontation so I am struggling with this and I don't want to ignore them.
Thanks.