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Dear Prudence, My flatmate and I are engaged in a debate. She recently bought one of those pedestal mats—like a bathmat but for the toile… Read more

Dear Prudence, My wife wants a pair of jeans by Dolce & Gabbana. When I found out they cost around $1,200 each, I told her if I was goi… Read more

Dear Prudence, My sister is getting married in less than two months. I was supposed to be her matron of honor, but the thing is that I am c… Read more

Dear Prudence, My brother and I were always close. He was a generous, compassionate, intense guy who chose a career working with vulnerable… Read more

Dear Prudence, I recently housesat for a friend’s colleague, something I often jump at the chance to do—I live in a small apartment so … Read more

Dear Prudence, I recently gifted my good friend a gift voucher for a spa treatment. I told her that I’d love to come with her when she go… Read more

Dear Prudence, Since my switch from a nonprofit to the private sector in January, I went from making slightly more than my boyfriend to sol… Read more

Dear Prudence, My 20s were a mess. I was broke, mentally ill, and abusing substances. I was miserable, suicidal, and barely surviving. I al… Read more

I have to be honest, I thought it was Tuesday yesterday.  I didn't realize it was Wednesday until I came here.  :smiley:  So now I'm plea… Read more

Dear Prudence, I (she/her) have a friend with benefits, Sarah, who loves to spend summer cycling as her primary mode of transportation. It … Read more

Dear Prudence, My mother-in-law has dementia and lives with my wife and me. Unfortunately, things are beginning to deteriorate; she barely… Read more

Dear Prudence, My youngest sibling (of eight total) is 18 years younger than me (a late-in-life surprise to our parents). He spent several … Read more

My husband passed away three months ago.  He had not been on speaking terms with his mother for the last 10 years, and his wishes were that… Read more

Dear Prudence,  A couple of weeks ago, I came home from work early and found our 15-year-old babysitter having sex with her boyfriend. I f… Read more

Dear Prudence, I am an only child and my mother has always been … let’s call it “involved” with my life, and I have done my best to… Read more

Dear Prudence, I am a young woman in college. I spent the first half of my childhood in poverty, but due to circumstances beyond my control… Read more

Dear Prudence, A week ago, I learned that my 35-year-old son donated sperm to a lesbian couple he’s friends with, and they just had a gir… Read more

Dear Prudence, I have two friends, “Elissa” and “Lindsey,” who absolutely hate their jobs. They work for different places, but in t… Read more

Dear Prudence, We have friendly new neighbors from a Gulf country who moved next door to us in London. When they moved in, I introduced mys… Read more

Dear Prudence, I am lucky enough to work with three of my amazing friends. We often travel together and have been able to have some really … Read more

No Wednesday thread yet! Here we go :) Read more

Dear Prudence, I recently bought a rock on eBay for my wife for her birthday (she has an extensive collection). The thing is, my wife has a… Read more

What's everyone up to today? Read more

Dear Prudence, My family is a lot: loud, messy, and with very poor boundaries. My husband has always been uncomfortable around them, so I w… Read more

This will be the color of my bridesmaids dresses. I'm having a hard time finding flowers to match. Any suggestions? Thank you ! Read more

How was everyone’s weekend?  Read more

ear Prudence, I have had a sometimes turbulent, sometimes apathetic relationship with my older sister practically our entire lives. She has… Read more

Dear Prudence, My sister’s son attends an expensive pre-K program. When I asked her how she and her husband were able to afford it when w… Read more

Hey everyone! I’ve been looking at rings from a few places, including iBling Jewels, and I’m really drawn to lab-grown diamonds they’r… Read more

Hello is your wedding dress worth 4k people spend for one day to weae thr dress? Read more

TK Help Center http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center)http://weddi… Read more

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 Ceremony &am… Read more

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty fi… Read more

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is dire… Read more

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn all abou… Read more