You're going to have to find a way to embrace the suck.

mrsconn23

Dear Prudence,

How do I deal with the fact that the woman who destroyed my marriage is moving in with my ex-husband and will help to raise my 10-year-old kid half of the time?

—She’s Gonna Wreck It

ei34

Your question is actually “how do I deal with the fact that the woman along with my exH who took vows together destroyed our marriage will now be raising our child half the time”? Did she tie him and and r*pe him? It takes two. 

Semantics aside I have no doubt LW is hurting and I hope has a good counselor available to feel all the things.  And maybe a family counselor who can help guide the child’s new family structure?