One of my friends is getting married and I was not asked to be a bridesmaid. The bride reached out to me to tell me that she wants me to join in on the bachelorette party and if it would be okay to pass my number along to the MOH. I told her yes and I'm now a part of this bridesmaid group chat.
The MOH started talking about buying decorations and games for the bachelorette party and she would let us know how much everything would cost in the end for people to help pay. I don't think I should contribute to that since I'm not a bridesmaid. I don't mind helping out if I need to buy a t-shirt for myself or paying for a hotel room if we decide to go out, but I don't think I should be putting out my money to help the bridesmaids buy decorations. I consider myself an "extra". Or am I wrong?...
Thoughts?