Please enlighten me.
I don't understand why it's so hard to just enjoy your relationship as it is. I know that thinking you are about to get engaged is really exciting and you wonder when it's going to happen. I was there I get it. But why start planning the wedding when there is still so much to enjoy just being together without the stress of putting together a guest list, finding a venue, picking out flowers, programs, inivitation etc? Wedding planning is a crazy, stressful time, trust me - ask the other engaged ladies on this board. It isn't all it's cracked up to be - emotions run high and there are disagreements or arguements on what you want vs. what your family wants, who you just have to invite because they are your parents BFF, will kids be invited or not, etc. I just can't imagine why you would want to bring this on yourself earlier than necessary.
This post isn't entirely brought on by the posts on this board but some of the more recent posts have made me ponder this more and more lately.
As has been said numerous times forever doesn't start on your wedding day - you're living it now