So my fiance is Catholic, I am just Christian (most of you would probably call me fundamentalist). We are having a non-demoninational Christian wedding that will probably seem like a normal Protestant wedding to most people. The problem is, those ceremony are SO SHORT and we feel like 1) it's not an appropriate worship service and 2) it'll go so fast that we'll barely having a ceremony. We have two readings, but no special music, because it feels strange to us.
Unity candles aren't allowed at this chapel and I'm not a fan anyway.
Communion is out of the question because although he takes communion at my church, his mother is very much not ok with him doing it at a non-Catholic Church.
Are we stuck with a boring ceremony? What else can be incorporated into a wedding ceremony, seeing as we view it as a worship serivce?