Little bacground info.... My Fi and I are paying for everything, except for the food. FMIL was so excited about the wedding that she and a few of her close family members have graciously offered to take care of the dinner at the wedding. They came up with a great menu of home cooked food and we are very pleased. We have told her to get us a guest list of her family & friends, and she has given us a number. Here is my issue... FMIL has a close friend, around my age that she calls her adopted daughter. She has been around for years, always going back and forth between FI and his two brothers, trying to date them (none of which have ever given her the time of day). She has made it clear that she doesn't like me, going as far as telling FI he didn't need a gf when we started dating. There was also and occasion that she sat in FMIL's driveway as FI and I were saying our goodbyes, and wouldn't leave until I did. FI and I laugh about these things, but here is my dilema. This girl has never said more than three words to me, but I know we are expected to invite her. Am I being childish in saying, if she can't even acknowledge my existence, than why should I invite her?
