My 89 year old grandmother has Alzheimers and can't come to my wedding.. It would be too much physically and if you know alzheimers..too much stimulation and I think it would further confuse her. We are very close and I love her dearly..Any ideas how I can honor her at my reception? TY! Let me mention, I will also be honoring my mother who died by placing a picture of her next to a candle and vase and after the wedding I will put my bouquet in the vase and light the candle. Thanks!