To clarify, I'm not talking about the word "work" referring to employment. I'm talking about the word "work" in the sense meant in expressions like "work on our relationship". I've heard this expression for years. Lately, I realized that I don't think this way about my relationship with my fiancé. I don't recall hearing it used about other non-couple relationship. So, I just wondered if you think of your relationship this way. If you do, do you know how or where the term "work" came from for you? Relevant discussion is welcome.