My wonderful fiance has a father that thinks he's a photographer and insists on shooting our wedding. We've tried the approach of saying, "We want you there as a dad, not a photographer" and, "We want you to enjoy the day just as much as we are." Nothing is working. I know he just wants to help us out and save us some money but he's being stubborn. We have a photographer we want to use and she's available. I suggested to my fiance that we send him a link to her website so that he can see how amazing she is but he said he'd never see the difference. With the holidays coming up, I don't want it to be a point of contention so any suggestions on how to handle this would be greatly appreciated. (I know that saying point blank, "This is our wedding and ..." is an option but a more passive way with him is best until absolutely necessary.) Thanks!