So today my cousin who is also my MOH calls and says If you don't hurry up and plan something your wedding will be a diaster! So I told her will u are suppose to help me, then she said Well you haven't given me a task....ding she's right! I have so much going on I really don't think I'm going to have a wedding its too much to do and I don't have the time. It seems every week my mom or my friends ask how the wedding planning going and they get the same answer "Nothing at all has been planned" I wanted to plan mostly this summer but that won't happen. I'm in summer school all summer, I'm working on 2 research publications, I'm presenting at 2 conferences in June and July, I just dont have time to plan a wedding. My FI and I talked about it and he said that since we are going to Italy for our honeymoon (woo hoo) let's just get married there! I have mixed feelings because I want my family there. I don't wanna wait till 2013 because we don't want a real long engagement and the summer of 2012 I will start work on my disseration anyway...I think it may be clear that my wedding planning is off and forget the whole wedding