African American Weddings

2012 Brides Check In: It's That Time Again!

So my fellow 2012 brides what's going on?  What have you been up to?

 Me:

1. I have been narrowing down my videography options.  I have two in mind. Hopefully by the end of the month I will have made a decision. 

2.  Working out like a dog!  It's been a lot of fun though.  Next month is fitness boot camp!  If I am not on the board that much you will know why. 

3.  In September I plan to start looking at gowns.  YAY!! 



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Re: 2012 Brides Check In: It's That Time Again!

  • edited December 2011
    1. Ceremony and reception venue booked!

    2. I've tried on dresses once but I plan to go ALONE this Tuesday just to get a sense of what I really want without hearing everyone' s opinions first. The first time I went I couldn't tell if I really liked the dress or liked how my family commented on it.

    3. I've contacted three photographers that were in my budget and after a week almost 2 I have YET to hear back. I think thats unprofessional unless they have some excuse but I will be redirecting my search.

    4. Trying to get a clear wedding vision. I am so lost on what I want my day to look like!
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  • edited December 2011
    Got the Venue for ceremony and reception
    Working on getting my bridemaids details and getting started with ordering dresses.
    Ordering Save the dates
    Toning up in the gym(I feel you Island07b2b lol)
    Will soon start trying on dresses (cant wait, this will make it so real)
    Searching for photographer
    May have a caterer nailed down
    and trying to put all the ideas in my head to action!!
    March 10th will be here before I know it!!!
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  • edited December 2011
    1. Got the ceremony and reception venue
    2. Booked our DJ and he provides lighting and sound for ceremony and reception
    3.Booked my ceremony singer (soo excited to have live music at the cermony!)
    4.Booked the photographer
    4.Cake tasting is next month
    5. Gown shopping in September!
    6. Been losing weight and trying to tone up too! Gotta look good for e-pics in October :)
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  • edited December 2011
    1. Ceremony and Reception Venue booked
    2. Meetings scheculed with caterer, photographer, baker, and DJ in the 2 weeks
    3. Dress and Shoes purchased
    4. Working on my DIY projectis (4 completed so far)
    5. Getting my ideas together for ceremony and reception decor
    6.  Exercising...omg I was almost in tears the other day cause with all this wedding planning I have been eating, snacking, and snacking some more. I'm not happy about it at the moment, but FI will be home tomorrow and he said we can work out together if I want.  So I might take him up on that offer.
     7. Trying not to stress out 
  • edited December 2011
    @MrsBoss2012 Whenever I don't hear back from a vendor or they take more than 3-4 days to get back to me I just keep it moving and don't look back.  I agree that it is unprofessional and I feel like why should I have to track a vendor down to give them my money.  I don't think so. 
  • ellone400ellone400 member
    1000 Comments Third Anniversary
    edited December 2011
     booked cermony and reception venue
    starting to look for florist
    still searching invitations 6mo later and nothing!
    booked cake
  • Johnsonk313Johnsonk313 member
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    edited December 2011
    I am looking at ceremony and reception venues
    Working on my DIY projects
    Going dress shopping this weekend! Whoop Whoop!
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  • Vonetra224Vonetra224 member
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    edited December 2011
    1.Got the reception and ceremony venue booked
    2. I have my dress already Smile

    3. Working out with Jillian Michaels everyday....well not really LOL but I purchase her dvd 30 days ripped and boy let me tell you she will put you to WORK!!!

    4. Narrowing down the limo companies and flower shops( I might diy the bouquets and etc)

    5. Getting my ideas for both the ceremony and reception decor.
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  • edited December 2011

    Venue booked
    Wedding Coordinator booked
    Dress Ordered
    Bridal party dresses order
    Groom and he's men attire is done
    Photography booked
    Engagement pics completed
    DJ booked
    Cakes booked
    Save The Dates Order( In the process of mailing them out)
    I think that is all for now that I have done

    I'm going on tomorrow to meet with my coordinator about my flowers since she also does flowers/decor. Need to meet with the company about our Ice Cream Station at our wedding, Need to start on some of the DIY projects and much more wedding planning activities that I will be doing over the next 8 months

  • edited December 2011

    ~Booked the ceremony and reception venue.

    ~We have a photographer.

    ~Tried on dresses last week to get an idea of what I want.

    ~And I've begun to workout consistently!

    I feel like I should be doing more, but don't know what yet.....
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  • edited December 2011
    Right now I just want to cry....I feel so overwhelmed with school

    But we have

    -a ceremony and reception venue

    -a photographer

    -a DJ

    -engagement photos done

    -chiavari chairs rented

    -my wedding bands purchased

    -picked bridesmaid dresses

    -got "Will you be my bridesmaid Cards?"

    -Registered at Bed Bath and Beyond (We just need to go in and pick things, Yea!)


    I have so much to do ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. This month I am trying to work on picking the Save the Dates, mailing out my cards to my bridesmaids, meeting with a potential officiant, and finding a rental company for my gold chargers and overlays for the tablecloths.

    I am going dress shopping in September.
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  • MsRichard83MsRichard83 member
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    edited December 2011
    1. I have picked out the venue which includes just about everything except the Pastor, photographer and cake.

    2. Dress has been picke dout and I am going on the website often just gazing at it, I can't wait for it to come in!!

    3. Starting the workout process just to tone up so I can look as good as I need to in the dress.

    4. Looking into photgraphy packages, invitations, and cake tastings. So much to do, but I'm so excited!!
  • edited December 2011
    I have picked out my venue.

    Picked my bridesmaid and new MOH, since me and the other one fell out.

    Started working out.

    And narrowed down my dress selection.

    Right now I am researching honeymoon locations.
  • edited December 2011
    All the big ones are booked!

    Venue, florist, photographer, dj.
    My dress is done,
    Save the dates will be in my hands by end of next week and in the mail first week of August.
    Invitations are decided.
    All containers for the candy buffet are purchased and so are the napkin rings.

    Coming up:
    BM and MOB dress shopping
    Locating chargers
    Tasting
    Book rehearsal dinner location

  • edited December 2011
    Well so far
    Venue is booked (covers catering)
    dj booked
    minister booked 
    STD's ordered should be in by 8/5
    Bridal party dresses chosen (for now lol)

    Still need to (by the end of august)

    Figure out the overall look for the day
    narrow down and book video and photo company
    figure out if i want a florist.
     Get envelopes for std's and send them out
    work on website.
    test some diy ideas
    find a dress
    start invies

    PS if anyone has a travel theme and wants to share ideas, let me know
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  • edited December 2011
    venue booked (ceremony & reception covering catering)
    found cake person

    so many things I need to do I gotta get a move on it:
    find a dress
    book a photog
    book dj
    find BM dresses
    diy projects
  • edited December 2011
    Hey girls new to this board but I promise to stick around more :)
    I'm having a destination wedding in Jamiaca getting there by way of a cruise!  As of Friday we have 39 cabins booked.  So excited.  We've also hired a wedding coordinator in Jamaica the package includes the photographer, mini reception, cake, toast.. We're going to have an At home reception probably about a month after we get back.  Can't wait!
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