All I had ever wanted was a red and white winter wedding in December. Well, sure enough now that its time to get married, we kind of have to get married in may. I've tried to move beyond a winter wedding, but I just keep coming back to all of the wonderful ideas and dreams that I had. My last name is going to be Flake and I was so looking forward to using snowflakes to decorate! But now, I'm really torn and am having a difficult time planing a spring wedding. I've had a few friends tell me that I should have my dream winter wedding anyways, even though it will be the end of May. Part of me really really wants to go for it, but I'm scared that people might see it as tacky. Any ideas or opinions?