Would
-totally have a DW
-select an AI resort
-take a chance on a resort with bad reviews (Westin took my resort over in May or June and there was a ton of nasty reviews about the turn over. But everyone was so kind and wonderful and we didn't have any issues)
-select a non traditional wedding dress (it was beautiful and saved a ton of money)
-take the time to do programs, welcome letters and OOT
-keep the guest list very small
Wouldn't
-wait so long to start planning a DW
-do my own hair and makeup
-have an AHR (even though we're doing a small dinner, It's just one more thing to deal with and I'm kind of over wedding planning lol)