I lurk on a ton of boards on the knot and there are 4 things that brides do that bug the heck out of me -inviting more people than the venue can hold/you can pay for and counting on people declining. I don't get this...you NEVER know who may surprise you -Brides who are so concerned about bridal parties being even that they ask people they aren't close to or make their FI ask people just to even them up. -Brides who think their BMs/MOH have duties and then kick them out and replace them. I have 2 potential drop outs for my wedding...one because of school and one because of a pregnancy...I would never think if replacing them. -and my biggest- people who send out invitations 3+ months in advance. I don't even get my schedule sometimes until a month before. I think this is just asking for screwed up RSVP numbers. Anyway, what are your biggest pet peeves! Or am I the only nit picker around here?