October 2012 Weddings

I'm back!

After taking a much needed break from wedding planning since it was causing so much tension with FI and I, we are back to planning the wedding! Yay! There was just a lot of stress since we are not getting married locally and we were trying to make other people happy and it wasn't working. All the stress was making both of us unhappy and we started fighting alot. We talked things out and decided that we would not talk about the wedding for a month. We also came to the conclusion that it doesn't matter what any one else thinks. This important day is about us! 
Oh and also on a happy note FI got a job offer in a hospital! Yay! He is an RN and has had trouble finding a RN position in a hospital! Things are finally looking up! 
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Re: I'm back!

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_im-back-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:43ece921-508e-4195-a4d3-16110c9cd756Post:737b8f80-30e6-4b3b-bd03-63817896849a">I'm back!</a>:
    [QUOTE]We also came to the conclusion that it doesn't matter what any one else thinks. This important day is about us!  Posted by nataliet02[/QUOTE]

    This exactly! You'll never make everyone else happy. Make yourselves happy on your day!
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  • yay! Welcome back!! FI and I also took some time off of wedding planning. The holidays were just crazy this year and we were getting ourselves stressed dealing with both. So we took off of planning between Thanksgiving and New Year's.

    It definitely helped us focus on the relationship again and not just wedding wedding wedding.

    But anyways....welcome back and congrats to your FI on the job!!
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  • We went through the same thing with trying to make people happy since we are having a DW too.  I am glad to hear that everything worked out. 

    Where are you getting married?
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  • Vegas. I  know it is not far but we are not having a formal reception and trying to find a restaurant that will please both parents and family was getting difficult. We took a trip in December and came back even more clueless and frustrated then when we left. I think that is what finally did it so we took some "us" time. It was nice since our Anniversarry is also in January and we celebrated 9 years together!
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