July 2012 Weddings

People you don't want at your bach party?

Seeing how almost everyone has had their bach party already...who did you invite? I hear etiquette says all young women invited to the wedding but....does everyone really do that??

I have a cousin I reeeeaaallllly don't want to invite. She's extremely awkward and uncomfortable. Once when I invited her to a party, she spent the night imitating and making fun of my friend's basic Spanish who was visiting me from the states! My poor friend felt so embarassed and I was pissed. All the other times she roams around making awkward comments and convo making everyone feel very uncomfortable. And that's what bothers me...it's not so much how I feel about her but how uncomfortable she always makes others in the group. I'm sure I could easily get away with not inviting her. But I'm thinking that if I don't, that would mean I wouldn't be able to invite my other two cousins, ones that I actually do want to invite, because then that could potentially cause unwanted family drama. FI says not to invite her anyway and only invite the cousin that's not close at all to the crazy one. Ugh I'm stuck. Did you have any not so fond of guests at your bach party??

Re: People you don't want at your bach party?

  • My bach party is next weekend and we are not inviting everyone. None of my family is coming it will be all friends. I just think it will be more fun that way because honestly anyone else would probably be uncomfortable because I don't hold back and don't want to really. I want to have fun- no party poopers allowed! Plus- I think my MOH might be getting a stripper! LOL
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  • I did not invite all the ladies - that would have been FAR too many people!! I think I invited about 20 of my closest girlfriends, we had about 15 or 16 come to various portions of the day. I don't think you by any means have to invite all the girls that are on your guest list.
  • My Bach party isn't until the 21st. Yes, there are people who I don't want there but at this moment where I am and what I am feeling about this wedding I said to myself don't care about this stuff just have fun.
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  • Only my BMs and a few other close girlfriends are invited to mine.  In my experience, more women = more drama, so I'm trying to keep it as simple as possible.  My BMs don't all get along to begin with so it'll be an interesting weekend next weekend...
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  • Mine is tomorrow and I made a list of the few people I wanted to be there.  I didn't invite anyone that I thought would make it awkward.
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  • I invited my BMs and my closest girl friends. I did not invite all "young ladies" attending the wedding. You only need to invite who you want there!
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  • Mine is next Friday.  I'm not inviting my brother's gf as no one in my family likes her.  I'm not even close to inviting all the girls who were invited to the wedding to mine.  I wanted it small with only people I like being there.
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  • I just did my bridal party and my closest girlfriends.  I also had my mom come because we are very close.
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  • Mine is the 21st.  I just invited BMs and a few close girlfriends.  Didn't want too many people there!
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  • I kept my invite list simple, BM only! and BM only showed up! We had a blast. Went to the bar where FI met. I didnt get hammered but a great buzz and had a lot of great laughs!
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  • I wouldn't invite everybody, really. We are having 12 of my closest girlfriends- we are going camping. With a huge group of girls, it'll become confusing and awkward.
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