We got engaged a couple of weeks ago and are already receiving pressure regarding setting our "when & where". Even though we are planning a local wedding, about 75% of our guest list is from out of state and want to be making travel plans, setting their budgets, etc. Our wedding is going to be a big deal because its the first one on either of my parents side in at least 15 years! Saying my family is excited is an understatement!
In order to accommodate all of our out of state guests wishes, I thought about creating a Survey Monkey to send out to poll all my "would absolutely love it if they could make it" guests on the likelyhood they will be able to attend and what months they could attend. Is that tacky? I was going to add a spot at the end for them to fill out their address to start compiling my invite address book. Again, is this weird?
Any advice on the subject is MUCH MUCH appreciated!!