Hi, don't know anything about Jack & Jill showers but my friend's son and daughter in law might be having one. Generally, who pays for it? Bridesmaids? Or groomsmen too? Also, I guess they're talking about charging $25 per person for the shower (at someone's house) which I've never heard of for a shower before but maybe that's how these are done? Is the charge usually instead of a shower gift? Any information would be appreciated.