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How long is your non-church ceremony and what's the order of events?

Re: How long is your non-church ceremony and what's the order of events?

  • ElleB87ElleB87 member
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    edited March 2012
    Our ceremony was about 20 minutes basically it went - officiant explaining marriage is a legally binding contract and should be taken seriously, then vows, ring exchange and then we did a unity candle and then signed the paperwork.
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  • I am also looking into having our wedding somewhere other than a church. What are some possible locations? I was looking toward an outdoor wedding but that scares me because you never know the weather, especially in ohio. Any ideas?
  • edited March 2012
    Ours will be outdoors, non-denominational. I'm guessing it will be no more than 30 minutes, but will probably be more in the 20 minute range. I just finished putting together the sections for our minister and heres the categories: (some are only a sentence or 2)
    Prelude, pre-ceremony music
    Processional
    Welcome
    Family Consent (parents giving me away)
    First "Blessing"
    Declaration of Intent
    Charge to the Couple aka Reflection on Marriage
    Second "Blessing"
    Vow Intro
    Vow Exchange
    Ring Blessing
    Ring Exchange
    Final Blessing
    Pronouncement
    The Kiss
    Presentation
    Recessional
  • jagore08jagore08 member
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    edited March 2012
    Ours was about 15-20 minutes.  
    Processional
    Welcome
    Giving away of bride
    Prayer
    JOP talked about sanctity of marriage 
    Irish Blessing
    Vows
    Ring exchange
    Prayer
    Poem (Dr. Seuss's Oh, The Place's You'll Go!)
    Presentation of B&G
    Recessional
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  • We'll try to keep it to 20 minutes.

    Processional
    Welcome
    Reading 1 
    "Sermon" - reflective moment in a non-church way
    Reading 2
    Fi and I will say something short about our motivation to get married
    Reading 3
    Vows
    Ring exchange
    You know, kiss and recessional

    Our sisters will each do a reading, probably two poems and a short scene from our favorite book.
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  • If ours was 10 minutes, I'd be surprised. 

    Seating of the families
    MOH walk
    FG walk
    I walk
    Short & sweet ceremony - no wine/sand/handfasting add-ons
    Recessional
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  • Our officiant told us it will be about 20 minutes long.
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  • What part of NE Ohio are you in? I'm from Akron, and we're having ours along Lake Erie in Rocky River. If you want somewhere with an outside/inside option you could look at Stan Hywet or the Hilton in Cuyahoga Falls.
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