My SIL (husband's sister) is getting married next August. Outside of the wedding date, this is the ideal time for us to start trying for another baby. It took us over a year to get pregnant with our son and since we want our kids to be close in age (he is 14 months now) we need to get a move on. To what degree should I consider delaying getting pregnant based on the wedding date. If we start now I may end up a few months pregnant, many months pregnant or postpartum. If I am very pregnant or postpartum I will not be able to wear the dress my SIL is leaning towards. Brides, would you be upset if a bridesmaid ended up pregnant? Would you hope she took your wedding date into consideration when planning to get pregnant? P.S. She knows we are ready to start trying - I just don't know how she really feels about it.