My FI is inviting a few coworkers as I am too. One of this coworkers was a good friend of his after his divorce but when we started dating she because distant and weird. On about 5 occasions, weddings, office parties I've seen her she won't talk to me. Several of my friends think she is jealous but she has a boyfriend she's been dating for at least 6-8 months. Recently we were at a party and all his other coworkers congratulated us on our engagement and she stood there as if I wasn't even in the room. FI wants to invite her since he invited a few other people she knows. I told him I didn't care but she might actually have to talk to me, then again I will be so busy I won't even notice or care if she doesn't. I just think it's weird. He still needs to get her address and all the invites have already gone out so I suppose if he doesn't follow through on getting her address I don't have to be concerned about it. Wonder if she would come to the shower????