Hi ladies, I am the MOH in my sister's wedding and she keeps telling me she doesn't want any parties. She doesn't want a shower, a lingerie party, or a bachelorette party. Is it just me or is this weird? I want to do something for her, but I don't know what. If it was just a personal shower she didn't want, I would think it was just because she's embarrassed or something, but she doesn't want any kind of shower or anything before the wedding. Tips?