Can't sleep...

apfoster05

Hey yall...just having a hard time sleeping lately. FI and I have been arguing about anything and everything. Life has just gotten really hecktick lately!

ks3pink

I understand the hecktick part! My fiance is in paramedic class so when he's not working 24 hour shifts he's doing 12 hour clinicals. I'm a senior in college and work part-time. We also have a 3 year old daughter. Thus he's feeling a little neglected lately and I'm feeling like a bad fiance. We don't argue though, just having a rough patch which happens every once in a while (we've been together for 3 years). It will get better, wedding planning itself is stressfull so just keep in mind you'll soon be married and everything will work itself out. 10/10/10 Bride!!

LBM7189

Wedding stuff is extremely stressful, and I bet you are like me- you lay there at night and think about all the stuff you HAVE to do. I am sure your FI is like "whatever you want" So, just make sure you plan some special date time for the 2 of you where there is no wedding related convo! It works, believe me! We try to do this once every 2 weeks or so. Don't worry, it get better.

tamtam7

I understand the can't sleep thing.  I have insomnia (I think, I've never officially been diagnosed or anything) and I actually thought about getting on the knot last night, but I tried to tough it out.  And that's what FI and I do when things get hectic with us, tough it out.  Sometimes we argue over the dumbest things, but then we get over ourselves and bounce back.  Although I don't know your situation, you're probably just going through a rough patch.  I agree with pp, a date night sounds like fun!  Whatever the situation, I hope that things work out.  Sending knottie vibes and hugs your way.  Now, GET SOME SLEEP! LOL!