So I love carrot cake and my fiancee only likes white cake without icing (weird, I know). I really don't want two separate cakes and having a separate bride's cake and groom's cake isn't really the norm where we're from anyway. Do you think I could find a bakery to make us a small cake with alternating layers of carrot cake and white cake without icing? Or is that silly? Neither of us really cares all that much about the cake, but figured we might as well have what we like since it's our wedding.
Question 2...would it be weird to serve the guests a different kind of cake? I don't want to assume that everyone would like what we do, so would it be odd if we also had sheet cakes of something more traditional for others?