Long story I am going to try to sum up quickly.
My Aunt and Uncle who I grew up very close to and am very close with their kids made some bad decisions about 5 years ago. I am from a very large family so of course everyone has their own opinions. My grandpa is a very ahrd headed man along with a few of my uncles. One in particular cannot even be around my aunt and uncle who made the bad decisions--- neither can my grandpa.
For the last 5 years, my aunt, uncles, and grandparents have made it very known that my uncle is not invited to any family functions. My parents have been very close to my aunt and uncle (my aunt is my moms sister) so they have never been on the "dark side".
2 weeks ago we were at my cousins graduation. My uncle has been coming around more and it has been great! He has been nothing but an outstanding uncle to us so its really awesome to see him coming back around. As soon as one of my aunt and uncle saw him (neither of them am I very fond of) they packed their stuff and left---> BECAUSE HE WAS THERE! Same with my grandpa. My Aunt realized this and just left. She was very upset and beside herself...
So where I am getting at now is that my wedding is in 3 days... and I dont want this going on there... Why can some poeple just not realize people have to deal with their own consequences. I dont understand it. So now its either have the aunt and uncle I dont care for there or the one who has been way more of a family member in the past...