August 2012 Weddings

bachelor parties

Are your FI's having bachelor parties? What er they doing for them?

Re: bachelor parties

  • Mine was planning on a golf outing in his best man's town (4 hours away) with his groomsmen, but because several of them couldn't make it (new babies, work schedules, etc.) the decided to postpone.  The golf outing will now be taken the day before the wedding, which could be interesting before the rehearsal!  I know most of them will take it easy and I think they're planning on going early so sun burns shouldn't be an issue!
  • Last I knew they were planning on one. They were talking of going to a strip club.
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  • My FI's groomsmen are planning a paintball outing, last I heard. He's not involved with the planning so I only hear of it when one of the GM mentions something to me. I'm not fussed, they'll figure it out.
  • I know he is having a night out after the rehersal dinner, the night before the wedding.  He doesn't know all the details as he told the best man (a woman) he wants to be surprised.  I know a strip club will be included though, which I am totally fine with.
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  • libby2483libby2483 member
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    My FI had his bachelor party in June. His guys planned an entire weekend for him. They stayed overnight for two nights at a cabin. They grilled out, had a campfire, went tubing, went golfing, and then hit the strip club.
  • My FI did a golf outing/bbq a few weeks ago. On the same day/night I went to a spa and then out to dinner and drinks w the ladies. :)
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  • random4180random4180 member
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    I know it's the last weekend in July and he thinks it will involve steak...and probably beer. I don't have any idea what else- for some reason, I just feel like he'd find a strip club awkward (especially 'cause he's never been and would much rather spend an evening appreciating great meat and beer and maybe a nice cigar) so I don't think they're planning on that but who knows, lol? 
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  • My best guy friend (who is helping plan FI's bachelor party) always says to remember the party is really for all the guys who are already married....  I know his weekend includes fishing and drinking, cigars, and staying in Atlantic City, but I don't know (or need to know) anymore than that.
  • FI's closest friends right now are lots of girls, including some of my BMs - so they're taking him to his favorite bar after the RD, when his coworker friends and them (the girls) will all be in the same state.
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  • FI will most likely be having one. But I dont know what it will be or what they will be doing. I dont really care because I know he knows what im ok with and not ok with (pretty much you can look but dont touch and a certain flirty female friend is not allowed to attend his party). Plus I figure it would propbably just be a bunch of guys drinking at a bar(s).
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  • The groomsmen took him to gamble at a close casino, then they spent th rest of the weekend on a boat at the lake. He had a blast, this was about a month ago.
  • my FI is at his right now, andi it's being hosted by two WOMEN that work for him.  I'm not thrilled about it.  He wasnt really looking forward to it to begin with, and all I know it's at the moose club and they are serving boob cupcakes.  (eyes rolling here).  He said I could join him, but I trust him (just not his best friend or coworkes LOL).  <sigh>
  • Kirsten24Kirsten24 member
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    My FI is going on a brewery tour with his groomsmen & then having dinner & drinks at a near by pub. It's in 2 weeks, and he's very excited!
  • Some of these ideas sound like a great weekend out!  Brewery tours, camping, boating, grilling out...sounds like an awesome vacation!
  • Not too sure...I've been staying out of it honestly. I'm content to just let him do his thing. He's not big on strip clubs so I don't really anticipate him going to one. I know they are thinking about going golfing and hitting up an Irish bar but that's about all I know...
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  • My FI has one back in June...It started on Thursday when 25 of us (including wives) went to see the Twins play the Phillies (we are big phillies fans but live in Minnesota), then Friday about 8 of them golfed in WI.  Then Sat they had a huge bbq at our house and a party bus picked them up and they went to strip clubs and dive bars...
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  • FI had his bachelor party a few weeks ago. His groomsmen took him golfing. Then they went out to dinner and ended the day by gambling. He didn't know what they were doing ahead of time, but he had a lot of fun.
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  • FI's is in about three weeks . the original plans were to go golfing and then to atlantic city for drinks dinners strippers gambling you know the whole nine. unfortunately the golf got scratched due to a family party we have to attend during the day, but he atleast still gets his atlantic city trip, and the strip club haha! i could care less i trust him and the fact that my three older brothers will be there will keep him in line! i said i didnt wanna know anything about it as long as FI got home safe!
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  • my FI  bachelor party will be coming up sometime in August (you know how guys plan things). I told him I didn't really want to know what they were up to. I trust him and I know if I put any barriers down about anything his buddies would find some other way to even cause more problems. I had a crazy night out with my favorite girls, he deserves a good time too.
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  • Fi's bachelor party is the same weekend as my bachelorette party. August 4th. FI doesn't know yet whe the guys have planned, but I've been in on the loop the whole time. lol. They're going boating during the day, then out for dinner, then to the same "nightclub/bar" area as us girls are, then the stripclub.

    The only fear that I have is that we will end up meeting up in the nightclub/bar area. Neither one of us really want to see each other that night, just to keep it purely guys/girls. But I've also found out that we're staying at the same hotel that night too. So it could get fun.
  • Im leaving wednesday for my bachelorette trip to Cabo, Mexico yey!. So FI´s best buddies will be taking him out during the week for dinner and drinks, and on saturday they have their big shabang which includes lots of bars and a couple of stripclubs.
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