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  • em105em105
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    I'm glad it all worked out!

    Also, don't forget that our fellas often think much differently than us ladies.  My Fiance refers to it as 'speaking boy'.  For them it makes sense that they go about things a certain way, and it sounds like your feelings were definitely most important to him.

    You've got a keeper there! 

    (And I just started thinking of going to an ex's wedding and regarding one ex I realized it's plausible 'cause he's a High School ex who I now see because I sorta kinda introduced our best friends and THEY (the best friends) have been married for almost 3 years.  Another ex I considered and then started just laughing so hysterically at how bizarre it would be that my fiance asked me if I was okay.)
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  • mtnbrooke7mtnbrooke7 member
    10 Comments First Anniversary
    Exactly!  I had to remind myself that even though he missed the point of talking to me FIRST, he was just trying to fix the situation! 
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  • volleygurl0306volleygurl0306 member
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    He certainly missed the point BUT without hesitation he chose to put you first so I personally would leave alone the execution and just be happy about his intentions.  It sends a clear message to the ex that you are the number one lady for him (which let's face it, no matter how long it has been, we don't mind their exes being reminded we are the leading lady now).  I'm glad you spoke up and that he stepped up!
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  • CowgirlK39CowgirlK39 member
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    Hahah "speaking boy" is so true. I tell my friend this all the time. When you work with any animal, you have to put yourself on their level instead of trying to get them to understand you. The same goes for men. Don't try to put emotions into things... just go with a black and white type answer.


    Speaking Female: "having exes at this wedding is really weird, and makes me uncomfortable. What would her reason be for wanting to be there? Why do you want her there???"


    Speaking boy: "Don't invite her, that's weird. The married one is ok but thats it."

    Men don't worry about how things feel or may seem. Its not how they are wired. They think about rational "this and not that" type mentality.

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  • mtnbrooke7mtnbrooke7 member
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    LOL  So true!!  I need to always remember that boys think differently than girls!
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