So Ladies I just wanted to pass on info...I actually did it this morning!
you CAN change your name SAME DAY at SS office and DMV...
Make sure to take your SS card and Marriage Certificate you'll fill out the form and they give you a receipt and your done, I was in and out in 10 min.
DMV (ay ay ay) 2 hours non- appointment
Take your ID or DL, Marriage certificate and if you want to change the tittle of you car BUT in my case I couldn't because I have a lienholder so I need to go through the bank 1st.
It was $25 make sure to be ready for a new photo. The actualy process didn't take long but I waited 45min to enter the bldg and then another 15 min to get to the lady to give me a # to get checked in...then waited an hour to have a teller person help me and waited 10min in line to take a photo.
But it's OFFICIAL I made the name change!
Tried going to the bank but they wanted my physical ID/DL...so that will be till I get everything in the mail which they said 5-10 business days.