So Saturday, my fiance and I went to meet the cantor we thought would marry us. Although my FH was raised Jewish, because his mother is not Jewish and he did not have a bar mitzvah, many cantors won't marry us. Anyway, this woman was not what we expected. She answered my questions with "You do this once, I do this all the time, I know what I'm doing." Not exactly what either of us wanted to hear. We just didn't get a good vibe from her and both agree that we don't want her to marry us.
Can anyone recommend somebody who is nice and does a nice job?