Anyone ever had two Maid of Honors??

laurac42 · January 2012

I have 2 BEST friends! has anyone else had 2 MOH? I couldn't ever imagine choosing one of them! They both are just so important to me

then I would have three Bridesmaids!

Maggie0829 · January 2012

I personally didn't but many brides on these boards have and there is absolutely nothing wrong with having multiple MOHs. Just make sure that they each know that they are one of two MOHs so feelings don't get hurt down the road.

mbody · January 2012

I'm having two MOHs. My sister and my best friend which I met in pre-school and have known for 24 years. Then I have 4 other BMs.

mbcdefg · January 2012

I've seen lots of weddings with two Maids of Honor. Go for it.

Meghannsix · January 2012

I've been a co-MOH, and I've also been in a wedding where there was no MOH. I think you're good as long as you do what feels right to you. Just don't change your mind and try to "demote" either one of them, or kick them out all together. Take some time making your decision before you ask anyone!

edit: another thought, if you have 3 girls total, maybe just have no MOH? I mean, the girl who's not a MOH might feel kinda crappy

Kate61487 · January 2012

I had two. When I asked them I asked them to be "co-MOHs" so they knew up front I was asking the other also. H is one of two BM in a wedding next week - same thing, groom asked them to be "co"

The only instance where I'd recommend against this is if you only have 3 people total. Because then you're basically telling one person they're not as special. I believe your wording above means you have 5 total, so that shouldn't be an issue!

ETA: I'm guessing you'll be back in a few weeks asking how having 2 MOHs actually works. For me: One MOH (my college BFF) stood next to me and thus did the ceremony stuff (held H's ring and my bouquet, adjusted my train, etc.) My other MOH (HS BFF) signed the marriage license. Both gave speeches.

luv4994 · January 2012

I am a co-MOH in my cousin's wedding. I will also be having 2 MOHs in mine.

pretzelgrrl · January 2012

I am going to be a co-MOH for my friend's wedding

laurac42 · January 2012

Thank you ALL for this advice! Co MOH it is:) I have 5 total so no one will feel ackward! I am SO EXCITED

Best wishes to you all!

mama0712 · January 2012

So glad to see this post - I wanted 2 MOH's (the rest of the party is kids / teens) - mom said not right but it felt like the right thing to do. Phew!

joneka · January 2012

I have 2 moh, and 3 bm....i didnt know about the co thing until I read it on this board..sooo...both are special so I didnt want to choose...i also have 2 ringbearers..and 1 flwergirl..im the bride so I did what I wanted ;-)

roxiems75 · January 2012

I only have 1 MOH but we have 2 best men. I don't think anything is wrong with it.

MrsFranco417 · January 2012

my best friends sister-in-law didnt have any maid of honor but all bridesmaids because she couldnt choose just one person to be her MOH.

XxmcuhlovejennxX · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_anyone-ever-two-maid-of-honors?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:931f042c-d95d-4560-98bb-fa8cc68db42bPost:6dfd5604-ddf3-42ab-950c-af2450a49f08">Anyone ever had two Maid of Honors??</a>:
[QUOTE]I have 2 BEST friends! has anyone else had 2 MOH? I couldn't ever imagine choosing one of them! They both are just so important to me :) then I would have three Bridesmaids!
Posted by laurac42[/QUOTE]<div>
thats what im doing! :) two maid of honours, why not its your wedding!
one is my best friend from childhood and the other is my best friend from highschool :)</div>

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