So I panicked for a second tonight as I was sitting thinking about my RSVPS...I just proffed the draft last night and told her to send them to print. Then I was thinking you know I put spots for food choices, but how am I going to know which of the guests invited wants which of the meals!!?!?!?!?! I have to know each person's selection so I can place a special marker on their escort card so the wait staff know which meal to serve them....I freaked! So I called my mom and she said to google it and when I did I saw that most people add a line that states: "please place the initials of each guest next to their prefered menu option" So the email from my invite lady said she was hoping to start work on them tomorrow and so I think I might have dodged the bullet. I sent her an e-mail and called and left a message hoping that I would be able to catch her at least one way! Here's to hoping this works out!